The Evil Tongues by Saint John Vianney
"What I was telling you
there," they will then add, "it would be better to say nothing about
it. He might lose by it, you know."
"Is that so?" you
answer." It would have been better if you yourself had said nothing. That
would have been the thing to do."
A farmer will observe that his
neighbour's property is doing better than his own. This makes him very angry so
he will speak evil of him. There are others who slander their neighbours from
motives of vengeance. If you do or say something to help someone, even through
reasons of duty or of charity, they will then look for opportunities to decry
you, to think up things which will harm you, in order to revenge themselves. If
their neighbour is well spoken of, they will be very annoyed and will tell you:
"He is just like everyone else. He has his own faults. He has done this,
he has said that. You didn't know that? Ah, that is because you have never had
anything to do with him."
A great many people slander others
because of pride. They think that by depreciating others they will increase
their own worth. They want to make the most of their own alleged good
qualities. Everything they say and do will be good, and everything that others
say and do will be wrong.
But the great bulk of malicious talk is
done by people who are simply irresponsible, who have an itch to chatter about
others without feeling any need to discover whether what they are saying is
true or false. They just have to talk. Yet, although these latter are less
guilty than the others -- that is to say, than those who slander and backbite
through hatred or envy or revenge -- yet they are not free from sin. Whatever
the motive that prompts them, they should not sully the reputation of their
neighbour.
It is my belief that the sin of scandal
mongering includes all that is most evil and wicked. Yes, my dear brethren,
this sin includes the poison of all the vices -- the meanness of vanity, the
venom of jealousy, the bitterness of anger, the malice of hatred, and the
flightiness and irresponsibility so unworthy of a Christian.... Is it not, in
fact, scandal mongering which sows almost all discord and disunity, which
breaks up friendships and hinders enemies from reconciling their quarrels,
which disturbs the peace of homes, which turns brother against brother, husband
against wife, daughter-in-law against mother-in-law and son-in-law against
father-in-law? How many united households have been turned upside down by one
evil tongue, so that their members could not bear to see or to speak to one
another? And one malicious tongue, belonging to a neighbour, man or woman, can
be the cause of all this misery....
Yes, my dear brethren, the evil tongue
of one scandalmonger poisons all the virtues and engenders all the vices. It is
from that malicious tongue that a stain is spread so many times through a whole
family, a stain which passes from fathers to children, from one generation to
the next, and which perhaps is never effaced.
The malicious tongue will follow the
dead into the grave; it will disturb the remains of these unfortunates by
making live again the faults which were buried with them in that resting place.
What a foul crime, my dear brethren! Would you not be filled with fiery
indignation if you were to see some vindictive wretch rounding upon a corpse
and tearing it into a thousand pieces? Such a sight would make you cry out in
horror and compassion. And yet the crime of continuing to talk of the faults of
the dead is much greater. A great many people habitually speak of someone who
has died something after this fashion: "Ah, he did very well in his time!
He was a seasoned drinker.
He was as cute as a fox. He was no
better than he should have been."
But perhaps, my friend, you are
mistaken, and although everything may have been exactly as you have said,
perhaps he is already in Heaven, perhaps God has pardoned him. But, in the
meantime, where is your charity?
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