As you know my dear brethren, we are bound
as fellow creatures to have human sympathy and feelings for one another. Yet
one envious person would like, if he possibly could, to destroy everything good
and profitable belonging to his neighbour. You know, too, that as Christians we
must have boundless charity for our fellow men. But the envious person is far
removed indeed from such virtues. He would be happy to see his fellow man ruin
himself. Every mark of God's generosity towards his neighbour is like a knife
thrust that pierces his heart and causes him to die in secret. Since we are all
members of the same Body of which Jesus Christ is the Head, we should so strive
that unity, charity, love, and zeal can be seen in one and all. To make us all
happy, we should rejoice, as St. Paul tells, in the happiness of our fellow men
and mourn with those who have cares or troubles. But, very far from
experiencing such feelings, the envious are forever uttering scandals and
calumnies against their neighbours. It appears to them that in this way they
can do something to assuage and sweeten their vexation.
But,
unfortunately, we have not said all that can be said about envy. This is the
deadly vice which hurls kings and emperors from their thrones. Why do you
think, my dear brethren, that among these kings, these emperors, these men who
occupy the first places in the world of men, some are driven out of their
places of privilege, some are poisoned, others are stabbed? It is simply
because someone wants to rule in their place. It is not the food, nor the
drink, nor the habitations that the authors of such crimes want. Not at all.
They are consumed with envy.
Take another
example. Here is a merchant who wants to have all the business for himself and
to leave nothing at all for anyone else. If someone leaves his store to go
elsewhere, he will do his best to say all the evil he can, either about the
rival businessman himself or else about the quality of what he sells. He will
take all possible means to ruin his rival's reputation, saying that the other's
goods are not of the same quality as his own or that the other man gives short
weight. You will notice, too, than an envious man like this has a diabolical
trick to add to all this: "It would not do," he will tell you,
"for you to say this to anyone else; it might do harm and that would upset
me very much. I am only telling you because I would not like to see you being
cheated."
A workman may
discover that someone else is now going to work in a house where previously he
was always employed.
This angers him
greatly, and he will do everything in his power to run down this
"interloper" so that he will not be employed there after all.
Look at the father
of a family and see how angry he becomes if his next-door neighbour prospers
more than he or if the neighbour's land produces more. Look at a mother: she
would like it if people spoke well of no children except hers. If anyone
praises the children of some other family to her and does not say something
good of hers, she will reply, "They are not perfect," and she will
become quite upset. How foolish you are, poor mother! The praise given to
others will take nothing from your children.
Just look at the
jealousy of a husband in respect of his wife or of a wife in respect of her
husband. Notice how they inquire into everything the other does and says, how
they observe everyone to whom the other speaks, every house into which the
other enters. If one notices the other speaking to someone, there will be
accusations of all sorts of wrongdoing, even though the whole episode may have
been completely innocent.
This is surely a
cursed sin which puts a barrier between brothers and sisters, too. The very
moment that a father or a mother gives more to one member of the family than
the others, you will see the birth of this jealous hatred against the parent or
against the favoured brother or sister -- a hatred which may last for years,
and sometimes even for a lifetime. There are children who keep a watchful eye
upon their parents just to insure that they will not give any sort of gift or
privilege to one member of the family. If this should occur in spite of them,
there is nothing bad enough that they will not say.
We can see that
this sin makes its first appearance among children. You will notice the petty
jealousies they will feel against one another if they observe any preferences
on the part of the parents. A young man would like to be the only one
considered to have intelligence, or learning, or a good character. A girl would
like to be the only one who is loved, the only one well dressed, the only one
sought after; if others are more popular than she, you will see her fretting
and upsetting herself, even weeping, perhaps, instead of thanking God for being
neglected by creatures so that she may be attached to Him alone. What a blind
passion envy is, my dear brethren! Who could hope to understand it?
Unfortunately,
this vice can be noted even among those in whom it should never be encountered
-- that is to say, among those who profess to practice their religion. They
will take note of how many times such a person remains to go to Confession or
of how So-and-So kneels or sits when she is saying her prayers. They will talk
of these things and criticise the people concerned, for they think that such
prayers or good works are done only so that they may be seen, or in other
words, that they are purely an affectation. You may tire yourself out telling
them that their neighbour's actions concern him alone. They are irritated and
offended if the conduct of others is thought to be superior to their own.
You will see this
even among the poor. If some kindly person gives a little bit extra to one of
them, they will make sure to speak ill of him to their benefactor in the hope
of preventing him from benefiting on any further occasion. Dear Lord, what a
detestable vice this is! It attacks all that is good, spiritual as well as
temporal.
We have already
said that this vice indicates a mean and petty spirit. That is so true that no
one will admit to feeling envy, or at least no one wants to believe that he has
been attacked by it. People will employ a hundred and one devices to conceal
their envy from others. If someone speaks well of another in our presence, we
keep silence: we are upset and annoyed. If we must say something, we do so in
the coldest and most unenthusiastic fashion. No, my dear children, there is not
a particle of charity in the envious heart. St. Paul has told us that we must
rejoice in the good which befalls our neighbour.
Joy, my dear
brethren, is what Christian charity should inspire in us for one another. But
the sentiments of the envious are vastly different.
I do not believe
that there is a more ugly and dangerous sin than envy because it is hidden and
is often covered by the attractive mantle of virtue or of friendship. Let us go
further and compare it to a lion which we thought was muzzled, to a serpent
covered by a handful of leaves which will bite us without our noticing it. Envy
is a public plague which spares no one.
We are leading
ourselves to Hell without realising it.
But how are we
then to cure ourselves of this vice if we do not think we are guilty of it? I
am quite certain that of the thousands of envious souls honestly examining
their consciences, there would not be one ready to believe himself belonging to
that company. It is the least recognised of sins.
Some people are so
profoundly ignorant that they do not recognise a quarter of their ordinary
sins. And since the sin of envy is more difficult to know, it is not surprising
that so few confess it and correct it. Because they are not guilty of the big
public sins committed by coarse and brutalised people, they think that the sins
of envy are only little defects in charity, when, in fact, for the most part,
these are serious and deadly sins which they are harbouring and tending in
their hearts, often without fully recognising them.
"But," you
may be thinking in your own minds, "if I really recognised them, I would
do my best to correct them."
If you want to be
able to recognise them, my dear brethren, you must ask the Holy Ghost for His
light. He alone will give you this grace. No one could, with impunity, point
out these sins to you; you would not wish to agree nor to accept them; you
would always find something which would convince you that you had made no
mistake in thinking and acting in the way you did. Do you know yet what will
help to make you know the state of your soul and to uncover this evil sin
hidden in the secret recesses of your heart? It is humility. Just as pride will
hide it from you, so will humility reveal it to you.
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